You should never need to use force to assemble wheel bearings.
Take it all apart, clean everything up. Inspect the spindle where the bearings slide on, and if there are any burrs, clean them up with a strip of emery cloth. Then see if the new bearings will slide into place.
Also, measure the ID of the bearings, and the OD of the spindle. You should have a couple thousandths of an inch of clearance.
Once you get it sorted out, and things are slipping together properly, grease the bearings (also, don’t pack the journals full of grease, it isn’t needed and wastes grease), drop the inner bearing into the hub, install the dust seal, slide the hub and bearing onto the spindle, then insert the outer bearing, washer and nut.
Tighten the nut by hand, while spinning the hub. When you get it as snug as you can by hand, then use a socket, and a 3/8” drive ratchet to set the bearings while again rotating the hub.
I believe the service manual specifies a torque, but I usually snug by feel, then back the nut to the first point the nut lines up with the cotter key hole, then insert the key, and replace the dust cap.
There should be a very small amount of free play.