No offense but I'm going to guess that you don't feel comfortable doing electrical system diagnosis. There really should be several voltage measurement reports here. At the headlight switch (input and exit), at the fuses (left and right), at the headlight sockets, etc. And at the relay socket pins before you replaced the relays. That's the way to do it, you shouldn't pull or replace anyhting until you've taken a measurement or probed with a test light.
You've pulled fuses and replaced parts but haven't reported any actual measurements. I'd start at the headlight fuses. They're easy to get to and you can go forward or backward from there.
Measure from each side of the fuse to ground with the headlight switch on.